Last October I attended my second Christ in Youth
Wilderness retreat. It’s a five-day long gathering, mostly of youth ministers,
up in the Rocky Mountains overlooking Colorado Springs at a beautiful place
called Bear Trap Ranch.
The days are scheduled, but somewhat loosely, allowing
participants to map their own retreat for the most part. In the mornings we
breakfasted, gathered for a short period of corporate devotion, and then given
until lunch to work on some guided devotional time. For the 2019 session, our
text was the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5-7). We were encouraged to find a
quiet spot out in the wilderness as we did this. There was also plenty of
discretionary time before lunch.
After lunch was free time, in which participants had
opportunities to hike, fish, sightsee, read, nap, play games, etc., until
dinner. When dinner was done, we moved to a time of corporate worship, which
consisted of praise and proclamation. Immediately after this, we got into our
assigned small groups. Small groups were assigned according to age and years of
ministry experience. In the small groups, we’d discuss our life and ministry
situations, the devotional questions we were given that morning, and anything
that stirred us regarding that evening’s message. By then it was 10 pm or so,
and usually time to hit the sack.
Corporate spiritual retreats vary in size and shape. But
there are at least four elements they have in common with one another that prove
valuable to those of us seeking to make space for God in our lives.
WORLDLY DISCONNECTION
One has to ask, what is one “retreating” from? Simply
put, we are retreating from the everyday burdens, concerns, anxieties, distractions,
and pleasures the world offers. At Bear Trap Ranch, one needs to travel about
a mile away just to get cell service, and even then it’s spotty. The ability to
get away from all that the world affords is invaluable in drawing closer to
God. Jesus himself made it a habit of going to lonely places for opportunities
to better commune with the Father.
IMMERSION IN CREATION
Due to their isolated nature, most retreat locations offer
an opportunity to spend a good deal of time in God’s creation. This is an important
part of the spiritual life that often gets overlooked in the hurly-burly of modern
urban life. While Scripture is God’s special revelation to his people, creation
is his general revelation to all people. Spending time in nature and grasping
just a little bit of its amazing complexity and design help us to recapture
our wonder and awe of the One who made it all.
GUIDED SELF-REFLECTION
Peter Scazzaro says, "The degree to which you
recognize and engage your own shadow is the degree to which you can free others
to face theirs" (The Emotionally Healthy Leader). The times of solitude
that are provided (ironically) at a corporate spiritual retreat are priceless opportunities
for us to spend time with ourselves, allowing the mirror of Scripture to show
us what we are really like, and to help us identify areas in our lives that are
not yet yielded up to Jesus. We can only lead people as far as we ourselves
have gone. Solitude and self-reflection are great tools for personal growth.
For me, the best part of a corporate spiritual retreat is
the “corporate” aspect of it. Spending a week with like-minded lovers of Jesus
in pursuit of a deeper relationship with him is a little foretaste of heaven for
me. We share our victories, our struggles, our praises, and our failures with
one another. Because of our common specialized vocation at Wilderness, combined
with CIY’s intentional grouping of participants, there is often great resonance
with one another in most facets of our lives. The support, encouragement, correction,
and challenges we receive from one another are amazing ways for God to speak to
our hearts and help fashion them more after his.
I’ve heard a lot of reasons why people don’t attend corporate
spiritual retreats. “I’m not an outdoors guy!” Neither am I. “It’s too
expensive!” Beg, borrow, and plead if you have to. How much is your walk with Jesus
worth to you? And a five day retreat like Wilderness is very reasonable in price.
“I wouldn’t know anyone there!” Bring a buddy. Or come to Wilderness and look
me up. I’ll be your friend.
You know my take on the spiritual disciplines. Not
everything is suited for every person. But you owe it to yourself, to God, and
to those you are investing in to at least give the corporate spiritual retreat
a try. If it’s not for you, at least you’ll know. But I’m betting the
experience will bless your life and the lives of those around you.
Grace and peace.
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